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1 login · it's really you
the space between you two
One move a day for the person who matters — from what your bond has heard.
A thing to say, a thing to ask, the repair you keep putting off. You try it on them.
Their reaction is the score — you can't fake closeness for someone else.
The ones that land go Bonded Me. The cursed dating-coach stuff goes Burned Me.
one move a day · keep what brought you closer · name something new and it's yours
It reads the bond between two people behind a fence — you never see their side, only whether what you did landed. It invites; it never decides for you.

Before you start — it confirms it's really you

Who you love is yours alone — nobody fakes their way in, nothing leaves your device. It looks at you and listens — live human, in the room, right now. (The 4D / triple-capture handshake — the same one-login that holds across every room.)

Give it a second…
quick — 3 taps, no typing

Who's this about?

First run only — this points today's move at the person who matters. After that, your one-a-day is just there.

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today's move — from what your bond has heard
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Name the one thing you appreciated today
1 min · you two have been transactional lately
0:00 · reading whether it connected — the soften, the lean-in, not the words…
did it land?—
It reads whether the bond actually moved — not a star you tap to feel like a good partner.
it measures the bond, not you

Where you two are

Other apps measure your mood. This measures the distance between you — and roots for it to close. The win is a bond that holds on its own, with fewer prompts from us.

the distanceStrained
Strained → Mending → Close. The bar moves as the two of you do — and when you're Close, you won't need us between you.

Send it to them · behind the fence

Send today's move to the person it's about. You never see their side — only whether it landed. Their honest reaction is the only score; you can't curate it for them. Look any move up by its tag (styled after Rocket's 89P13).

When the bond is the thing that's hurting you

Not every relationship should be mended. If what your bond is hearing sounds like someone hurting you — control, fear, harm — closeness isn't the move, and this room won't push you toward it. It can hand a consented note to Therapy 4U or a real person. In the US, the DV hotline is 1-800-799-7233, any time.

on-device until you say go · nothing leaves without your tap